(Share) Tegretol, but also to forgive

         A monk invited to participate prime feast, dinner, and found a table full of exquisite vegetarian, there is an even have a pork dish, monk disciples deliberately turned out the meat with chopsticks, intended to allow the owner to see that I did not expect monks but once the meat with their chopsticks cover up. 
         While, the disciples again pork turned out, the monks once again covered up the meat, and the apprentice's ear and whispered: "! If you then turn out the meat, I'll eat it," and then did not dare to hear apprentice meat turned out.
　

         After bidding farewell to the master monk feast. Way back, the disciples did not understand: "Master, just that we do not eat meat cook knew, why put the pork into the apprentice vegetarian just to let the owner know, punish him?." 
         Monk said:. "Everyone makes mistakes, either intentionally or unintentionally allow the owner to see if the dish of pork, he is likely to anger publicly punished chefs, cooks might even dismiss, this is not my wish to see . "dealing with people of course be" too reasonable, "but definitely not" unforgiving. "
         Some leeway to offend you, not only will not suffer, but there will be unintended consequences, social commitment! 
         People are not unreasonable, is a drawback; hard unreasonable person, is a blind spot; straighten gas "and" straighten gas than "strong" and change to better convince others.