Friendship gift is a good action, regardless of domestic or international share some common rules.
So, how gifts rather "rude", is a university asked.
In Japan, the picture can not send flowers because flowers on behalf of the funeral. Many Arab and Muslim countries in the Middle East absolute prohibition, it can not send wine.
In Mexico, people are depending on the purple as ominous, so gifts should avoid purple.
Muslim people because of cultural beliefs, do not eat pork, so friends can not send gifts to Islam pork, contrary to their customs.
In Italy, like white roses as a symbol of love, but it is in many other countries for condolences; red roses on behalf of the German lover; white flowers in the Far East represents mourning; send patients in the United States is very appropriate pot of duties , but if it is done in Japan, that you want that person dying. ?
So, how gifts rather "rude", is a university asked.
In Japan, the picture can not send flowers because flowers on behalf of the funeral. Many Arab and Muslim countries in the Middle East absolute prohibition, it can not send wine.
In Mexico, people are depending on the purple as ominous, so gifts should avoid purple.
Muslim people because of cultural beliefs, do not eat pork, so friends can not send gifts to Islam pork, contrary to their customs.
In Italy, like white roses as a symbol of love, but it is in many other countries for condolences; red roses on behalf of the German lover; white flowers in the Far East represents mourning; send patients in the United States is very appropriate pot of duties , but if it is done in Japan, that you want that person dying. ?
Do not send in teams of Western tool, because it represents hope to cut each other's business relationships. Indians do not send gifts with leather, because they, as the cow is a sacred animal; Britons do not send flowers striped tie, because the British only wear their striped flower tie, wearing a gift they think it is not auspicious the.
The Arab house guest, do not bring food as a gift, or it will think you are in criticism or satire of his hospitality.
European countries do not have the color aspects of comparison taboo, banquets or weddings, black can pass unimpeded. But if replaced in the Middle East, Central and South America, it is not so simple.
For example: yellow for the Iranians, Mexicans, Peruvians who dislike or curse implied meaning of death, the time and therefore select flowers or gifts, not any yellow stained avoid contact person mold head.
As for Latin America, although the region does not produce an elephant, but they have a lot of stick for elephants. When to send them any souvenirs or artwork relating to elephant pattern, remember to pay attention to whether the trunk up, if you do not send down, because this represents the home of all the best of luck will slip away.
Generally, when the gifts except "seven" number outside ages, but because Taiwanese "four" and "death" are homonyms, so particular to avoid the number four when Taiwanese gifts.
In the number of gifts, hi send double the number of matters, the so-called good pairs; funeral matters to send a single number that represents only one back.
Chinese people do not send handkerchiefs, umbrellas, clocks, scissors customs. Avoid sending bell, because "to send the clock" homonym "nail in the coffin", must be sent to the bell, but also threw in a book, homophonic "loose ends"; again comes the bogey or send fan, because "umbrella" word "fan" word and "casual" words are homonyms, have parted intended. There are also "send fan, no meet" argument, can also cause break off suspicion. ; Also avoid sending scissors or a knife, because it will lead to "clean break", "a cut off two" association. Avoid sending towel because "send towels, root pruning", "send towels, Lihen" said the. The old funeral home cooked at the funeral because after finishing evacuation towel to condole who intended to allow mourners and the dead cut off from. Therefore, under normal circumstances, gifts of towels, they will not Kat reminiscent funeral or farewell meaning. These are gifts dire need to avoid things. Chinese customs also avoid sending sweet cakes and dumplings, funeral home because they are not food, if people donated this matter, I am afraid that people still doubt that he is alluding to the other side of the funeral home in Italy, so it is absolutely taboo things.
Press rituals Dali Bai region, when the number of gifts will bring gifts "six" word. His bogey-free six number reasons, one said to be with and the Tang Dynasty tribute to six relevant, one that is to take the characters "have blessed Paul," meaning, a Chinese dialect say "six" and Bai language "enough" word tone phase approximation, so long as gifts "six" is sufficient.
Wa daily life on the taboo pepper, egg as gift items. This is because the old tile warring tribes often give each other peppers to represent a declaration of war; revenge is first sent to the egg, so only this taboo.
In fact, just to put it bluntly gifts together each other's mind, think about if the intention is good, but it sent a gift the other party that come to grief, is it angered everyone is happy too! This is a courtesy for the sake of each other, and if you can not take into each other's feelings, it might as well not send.
This is also an important learning psychology course - to how to take into account the feelings of others. Counseling or counseling programs often mentioned empathy, I think some resemblance with the gifts it! Standing on each other's position to think, and sometimes the things will get even more than we imagined.
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